9 Tips to Look Stylish on a First Date at 50 (2024)

8. Date like you're 50

Be comfortable in your own skin and don't try to hide the history in your looks or dress like you're 25. Even in this athleisure era skip sneakers, crocs, sweatshirts, track pants and backpacks unless your first date is a hike after the gym or at a green juice bar after yoga. You don't need peak comfort. You need peak chemistry and respect for the occasion. Make an effort — your date should, too. If he shows up with unwashed hair, a dirty beard, sloppy clothes, stained teeth, or unclipped nose/ear hair, then he's not respectful. A little too much authenticity is not a good thing.

9. Say ‘Yes’ to last-minute dates

Technology has changed dating to instantaneous texts and emails to meet now. Don't stand on ceremony when there's no time to go home, shower, change, or wash your hair. Rub an ice cube over your face and lids to wake up your skin and circulation. Blot then dab cheeks and lips with a tinted balm or lipstick for a little healthy color. Tousle your hair — whatever length, style, texture; bend at the waist and rake your hands through it. Just took off your hat? Shake your head, scramble the part (if you have one) for lift. Check your bag. There has got to be a small tube of Aquaphor, eye cream, a sunscreen, or a Vitamin E capsule (or nip into the drugstore en route!). Dab any cream, salve or balm on your palms and blend on cheekbones, cuticles, browsandends of hair. Add some scent. Haven't you got a scent strip or sample from Sephora in there somewhere? This is why you always need to carry a fragrance mini or rollerball with you. Dab throat, wristsandneck.

And remember, it'sonlya date.

For more beauty and style tips for women age 50-plus, check out The Woman's Wakeup: How to Shake Up Your Looks, Life, and Love After 50by Lois Joy Johnson.

Lois Joy Johnson is a beauty and style editor who focuses on women 50 and older. She was the beauty and style editor atLadies’ Home Journaland a founding editor ofMoremagazine.She has written three books:The Makeup Wakeup,The Wardrobe WakeupandThe Woman's Wakeup.

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9 Tips to Look Stylish on a First Date at 50? ›

Starting your first date in your 50s can be a fun and exciting experience. With the right mindset and preparation, you can make your date a success. Remember to choose a comfortable location, dress appropriately, be open-minded, listen actively, avoid talking about past relationships, stay positive, and be yourself.

How to look trendy at 50? ›

Our top 5 style tips for what to wear at 50
  1. Embrace color. While you can never go wrong with a dependable neutral color, bright and bold hues add excitement to your closet. ...
  2. Invest in luxe knits. ...
  3. Play up your waistline. ...
  4. Find your perfect fit. ...
  5. Chic loafers. ...
  6. A smart blazer.
Feb 15, 2024

What to expect on a first date over 50? ›

Starting your first date in your 50s can be a fun and exciting experience. With the right mindset and preparation, you can make your date a success. Remember to choose a comfortable location, dress appropriately, be open-minded, listen actively, avoid talking about past relationships, stay positive, and be yourself.

How do you get classy on a first date? ›

This article helps you solve that problem by giving tips for settling for that classy, comfortable, and stylish look for your first date.
  1. Dress comfortably. ...
  2. Dress for the occasion. ...
  3. Be yourself. ...
  4. Go for black and red outfits. ...
  5. Follow the third piece rule.
Apr 26, 2023

What jeans should a 50 year old woman wear? ›

If you're looking for a timeless style that you'll want to wear in your 50s and beyond, we highly suggest investing in a good pair of straight-leg jeans.

How to dress at 50 without looking frumpy? ›

Over 50s fashion: what to avoid
  1. Steer clear of shapeless skirts. Looking for a stylish skirt for a 50 year old woman, either for work or play? ...
  2. Say NO to fleeces. ...
  3. Hide elasticated waistbands. ...
  4. Don't get the wrong cut of denim skirt. ...
  5. Avoid loud makeup.

When should you kiss when dating over 50? ›

If you found each other through a dating app for over 50s and your first date is also your first in-person meeting, it's usually best to wait until the end of the date to go in for the kiss. If this is your second or third date, you may find that the perfect moment arrives right in the middle of your outing.

Where do 50 year olds go on dates? ›

Go to a gallery

If you're looking for creative date ideas, why not go to an art gallery or museum together. It gives you the opportunity to enjoy a shared interest and learn more about your date's passions.

What color to wear on a first date? ›

We asked a color-psychology expert to share the benefits of wearing certain colors on a first date. The expert said magenta and dark shades of green can help boost your confidence. Wearing pink can give off the impression that you're ready to have fun.

How can I be irresistible on a first date? ›

These work as first date tips for men and women alike.
  1. Don't overcomplicate things. ...
  2. Don't stress unnecessarily. ...
  3. Cut down the texting, and meet in person. ...
  4. Prepare some first date topics. ...
  5. Boost your confidence. ...
  6. Up your listening game. ...
  7. Create a strong first impression. ...
  8. Be true to yourself.

How should a lady dress on her first date? ›

BEST FIRST DATE OUTFITS FOR WOMEN
  1. Crop Top And Jeans.
  2. Tank Top And Skirt.
  3. Jumpsuits.
  4. Floral Dress.
  5. Bodycon Dress.
  6. Off-shoulder Top And Pants.
  7. A T-Shirt and Jeans.
  8. Slip Skirt with Top.
Aug 18, 2023

How to look 10 years younger at 50 female? ›

Skin brightening treatments, like Microdermabrasion, Light Peels, Micro Laser Peels, or the Clear & Brilliant Laser treatment all help patients to look 10 years younger or more, with just a few treatments. These treatments can be used in order to combat the signs of aging in the face, such as: Wrinkles. Age spots.

How can a woman over 50 look better? ›

These natural beauty tips can get you started.
  1. If you smoke, stop. ...
  2. Just say no to sunbathing and tanning salons. ...
  3. Wear sunscreen religiously. ...
  4. Check your skin often for skin cancer. ...
  5. Soothe dry skin. ...
  6. Eat right and hydrate. ...
  7. Try anti-aging products. ...
  8. Know about skin treatments.
Sep 18, 2023

What should a 50 year old woman wear? ›

Styling tips if you're in your 50s

Focus on fabrics: “Many women will experience hormonal changes after 50, so the key is to keep cool. I believe the focus should be on fabrics that will keep you cool,” fashion stylist Sharonda Grandberry says. Great fabric options include cotton, chambray, denim and cashmere.

How to stop looking frumpy? ›

If you've found yourself wondering, “What makes a woman look frumpy?” It's wearing oversized, baggy, sloppy clothes. Say goodbye to the days of drowning in fabric and open yourself up to owning your shape. Let go of any and all pieces that don't fit you.

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