The mother of the bride holds an important role in a wedding party. So, deciding on the best mother of the bride outfit to wear on your child's special day can be quite stressful. Here, we have everything you need to consider when choosing a mother of the bride outfit.
Traditionally, a stereotypical Mother of the Bride or Groom outfit followed something of a uniform: a cropped, fitted jacket atop an understated sheath. Luckily, that's in the past. However, more options can often become overwhelming! But, there are still a few considerations to take into account. We cover the different options and factors that may influence your mother of the bride outfit choice below.
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- Where can you get your mother of the bride outfit?
- What are the mother of the bride outfit options?
- Factors that affect a mother of the bride outfit
- How should you accessorise a mother of the bride outfit?
- Should the mother of the bride and mother of the groom coordinate?
- What about the mother of the bride's hair and make-up?
- When should you purchase your mother of the bride outfit?
What are the mother of the bride outfit options?
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In the past, the mother of the bride or mother of the groom outfits had a reputation for being matronly or overly conservative. But, that's no longer the case. Mums are encouraged to wear an outfit that they love (and feel amazing in) to their wedding of their son or daughter.
In terms of specific choices, you'll want to go for something that is practical and comfortable to move around in, as you're likely to be on your feet for most of the day. Knee-length dresses are always an elegant option, but you could go for something floor-length if the theme calls for it. Trouser suits or jumpsuits are also becoming increasingly popular as an option for a mother of the bride outfit. So, from sleek evening gowns and trendy midi to maxi dresses and structured jumpsuits, there are plenty of great options out there for your mother of the bride look.
Factors that affect a mother of the bride outfit
With so many fantastic options available, mums might feel a little overwhelmed! So, take these factors into consideration when narrowing down your mother of the bride outfit choice.
The couple's opinion
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It is their big day after all! But this does not mean that the couple should choose their mums' look for her. Choosing the mother of the bride's or groom's outfit should be a collaborative effort. Before shopping for a mother of the bride or groom outfit, it's best to ask the couple for their guidance or opinion. Follow their cues about style, colour, and degree of formality. Doing so will ensure that the mother of the bride or groom's outfit is appropriate for the wedding day. But, don’t forget that it's a special day for mum too, and she'll want to look and feel her best.
This is also a great bonding opportunity for you and your child's partner's mum! Perhaps you know them really well already or perhaps this is a chance to get to know them better, helping each other find your outfits with the guidance of your children is a great way to learn more about each other before the wedding.
The colour theme and the wedding party
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There's not one specific colour the mother of the bride should wear. But, the bridesmaid dresses and wedding colour scheme can both influence the mother of the bride's outfit.Traditionally, the mother of the bride's dress can complement the wedding party's colours, though not necessarily match. Therefore, it may be best to wait until the bride chooses the bridesmaids' dresses to begin shopping.
The bride may prefer to have corresponding colours for a cohesive look, but it ultimately comes down to personal preference. Instead of matching colours, consider looking for a mother of the bride dress in a similar hue or a colour that compliments the bridesmaids. If the bridal party has mismatched dresses, the mother of the bride can easily find a look that complements the rest of the wedding party.
It's also fine for the mother of the bride to wear an outfit that doesn't match the bridesmaids or the wedding colour scheme. Pastel colours such as pale blue or mint are always flattering and elegant. You might want to avoid anything that would clash or draw too much attention away from the bride such as bright patterns. Really, there's only one colour not to wear; anything in the same colour as the bride's dress!
The Venue
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The wedding venue can also help determine what the mother of the bride wears. A formal setting calls for a more upscale outfit, while a casual look is appropriate for laid-back celebrations. For example, a coat dress and elegant shift would be best for a formal traditional church wedding while a country marquee wedding would call for a softer, more relaxed dress.
Seasonality
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Of course, the season, and the weather it brings, are always going to influence your outfit. As with the bridesmaid gowns, mother of the bride outfits should be appropriate for the season. For example, the mother of the bride may not want to wear a long, heavy skirt or lace sleeves in the middle of summer, and she may prefer to cover up with a wrap or shawl for a winter wedding. So, consider elements such as the length, weight of the material, sleeve style, and colour when making your choice.
How should you accessorise a mother of the bride outfit?
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Traditionally, mother of the bride outfits are associated with stunning hats. It is especially expected for the mother of the bride to wear a hat in most religious venues. However, it again depends on the type of wedding you are attending. If it is a formal, grand celebration, why not make the most of the special occasion! However, the couple may desire a more relaxed wedding, in which case a headband or small fascinator may be more appropriate.
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Heels, your favourite smart coat, and a sleek clutch bag are fail-safe options when it comes to completing your look. For summer weddings, you could carry a light bolero or a pashmina to wrap up in when it becomes cooler in the evening. Feel elegant and sophisticated with beautiful accessories that will add a little sparkle to your ensemble. When deciding which items to choose, consider which parts of you will be on show.
Should the mother of the bride and mother of the groom coordinate?
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Traditionally, the mother of the bride would buy her dress first and then share her choice with the mother of the groom. However, there is no need for this anymore! The mothers may still wish to coordinate. You don’t want to accidentally show up in the same outfit!
The mothers' dresses don't have to match (unless that's what the couple wants), but they should complement each other. The couple may prefer to have their mums wear complementary colours, in which case both are advised to discuss outfit ideas together. While not necessarily required, having the mothers collaborate on their outfits will make for a smoother process and eliminate any style mishaps! Remember, you'll be taking lots of pictures together and the only people that should stand out is the couple.
What about the mother of the bride's hair and make-up?
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There aren't any special rules for the mother of the bride's hair and makeup. Think elegant, understated, timeless, and reflective of your style. As with the bridal party, you'll usually want to get a fresh manicure and pedicure just before the wedding and have your hair and makeup done the day of. Whether you do this with the bridal party is up to you and your child.
If the bride prefers to get ready with just her bridesmaids, for example, don't take it personally. You can invite the mother of the groom or other family members to join you in getting ready, or relish the rare moment of quiet! Just make sure that you do plan to get your hair and makeup done — whether by a professional or trusted friend. Too often, mothers overlook themselves in favour of their children; remember, it's a special day for you too!
Don't forget, this is going to be an emotional day for you too, so make sure that you bring tissues, wear waterproof mascara and bring some make-up with you in case you need to touch it up on the day.
When should you purchase your mother of the bride outfit?
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You should start searching for your mother of the bride outfit no later than three months before the wedding to allow time for special orders and alterations. You may choose to look in department or speciality stores for your dress, but don't pass over traditional boutiques. Many have options for the mother of the bride and groom, as well!
Where can you get your mother of the bride outfit?
Looking for somewhere to find your perfect mother of the bride outfit? Here we have our top mother of the bride outfitters so you can discover the ideal place near you to find the best mother of the bride outfit for you.
Charisma of Fawley
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Charisma of Fawley is the largest stockist of wedding outfits and occasion wear in Hampshire. They have an excellent reputation for outstanding choice and attention to detail, which will make choosing your outfit a real pleasure whatever the occasion. Charisma of Fawley specialises in wedding outfits for both mothers of the bride and groom in sizes 8 to 28. They also have stylish millinery and fascinators that will add the finishing touch to complement your chosen outfit. The friendly and professional staff will make you feel welcome with as much help as you feel you need. Also, there is a bespoke tailoring service to ensure that your outfit is perfect on the day.
Fancy Frocks of cl*theroe
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Fancy Frocks of cl*theroe, headed by a mother and daughter team along with carefully hand-picked staff, have collected over 10 years of experience in assisting mothers of the bride and groom to find that all-important outfit. They have carefully sourced a wonderful array of designers from around the world in order for you to select your individual style, leaving you spoilt for choice. Also, they have a fabulous selection of hats, fascinators, shoes, and matching bags. The experienced team offer a one-to-one shopping experience that is fun, pleasurable, and knowledgeable. Fancy Frocks also works closely alongside a highly trained seamstress with over 25 years of experience to attend to any adjustments that may be required.
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Based in Oxfordshire, Browne & Daughters specialise in creating timeless and effortlessly chic ladies coats, jackets, suits, skirts and dresses, perfect for your mother of the bride or groom outfit. Browne & Daughters are inspired by iconic designs from the past. So, they create timeless, effortlessly chic garments which make a lasting statement to any wardrobe.Their passion for everything British means all the materials are sourced and handmade in England exclusively for Browne & Daughters. So, discover a unique made to measure or ready to wear outfit, perfect for your dream mother of the bride look.
Burr Bridal
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Burr Bridal is a lovely boutique in Cambridge offering designer mother of the bride and groom outfits. When booking your appointment with Burr Bridal, you will meet Kim and her expert team with many years of experience in helping mothers of the bride find their perfect wedding outfits. Clients will be shown to your own fitting area. Once there you will be spoilt for choice with the gorgeous designer collections. You can complete your outfit with the hats, shoes, and bags available in the boutique. There is also a colour dying service so you can be sure that your accessories perfectly match your mother of the bride outfit.
Julie Fitzmaurice
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Julie Fitzmaurice is a luxury ladies' wear boutique in the heart of Harrogate. Specialising in Mother of the bride and groom, Julie Fitzmaurice has a passion for providing a fabulous shopping experience - nothing but the best! At this boutique, you can choose from made-to-measure, bespoke, and ready-to-wear mother of the bride outfits. The styles are hand-cut and designed in exquisite fabrics handmade laces, brocades, velvets, silk prints, and fine wool crepes.The owner, Gini Palm, and her team are passionate about their work and always look forward to creating the perfect mother of the bride outfit for you.
Moira's Reflections
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Moria's Reflections offers a fabulous selection of mother of the bride dresses and outfits with a beautiful selection of complementing hats, shoes and bags. With over 30 years experience in Leicester of helping people feel really wonderful on their special occasion, Moria's Reflections are confident you will be able to find your perfect mother of the bride outfit with them. With sizes ranging from 8 to 24 in a variety of styles and free alterations on most outfits bought or a discount on any outfit purchased, Moria's Reflections has everything you need to discover your ideal mother of the bride outfit.
Cream
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Cream have been trading for over 40 years and have an enviable reputation for providing a full service to the Mother of the Bride and Groom. Based in Hertfordshire, they offer a gorgeous selection of wedding outfits and also stock hats, fascinators, handbags, shoes and lingerie to help you co ordinate your wedding outfit. Their elegant day wear from brands such as John Charles, Rosa Clara and Luis Civit will have the Mother of the Bride looking sleek and stylish on the big day.
The Clothes Shop
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Specialising in Mother of the Bride and Groom, The Clothes Shop has over 900 hats and fascinators in stock. Their beautiful Mother of the Bride outfits are affordable yet high quality, and can also be customised to fit your vision. If you're looking for an independent shop with realistic prices, then The Clothes Shop is definitely a great option to find an outfit that Mum will adore!
Mother of the Bride Brand Partners
Can't find the style you're looking for? Don't worry! With plenty of contemporary and stylish choices from the likes of Oasis, Dorothy Perkins, Karen Millen and Coast, you will be sure to find something that suits any mother of the bride or groom.
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Oasis
Images courtesy of OasisOasis' occasion dresses encapsulate all the different types of styles, from playful to classic. With bold colours and unique patterns, you are set for any wedding style and will find the perfect Mother of the Bride look.
Dorothy Perkins
Images courtesy of Dorothy PerkinsWith Dorothy Perkins has everything from chic minis to floor-sweeping maxis. Print lovers will be spoilt for choice with finishes like playful polka dot, animal print and bold florals to choose from, alongside pops of colour and muted monochromes. For some extra sparkle, embrace embellished detailing and eye-catching diamanté trims. Our selection of lengths includes on-trend midis and elegant longline silhouettes that will ensure you make a splash!
Karen Millen
Images courtesy of Karen MillenDress to impress with Karen Millen's selection of dresses, including maxis, midis and minis styles for Mother of the Bride duties. Whether you're after a super stylish dress, a chic jumpsuit or a tailored sequin dress, Karen Millen will keep you looking, and feeling, amazing. Play with hem lengths silhouettes and details or opt for classic pieces that’ll never go out of style.
Coast
Images courtesy of CoastCoast hand-picks mother of the bride dresses to guarantee being second best-dressed – after the bride, of course! Find unusual dresses for summer weddings, flattering dresses with matching jackets in the autumn or winter. They also offer long and tea-length dresses for a more classic look, while brighter hues and prints that will turn heads on the dancefloor.
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Insights, advice, suggestions, feedback and comments from experts
As an expert and enthusiast, I have personal experiences or emotions, but I can provide you with information on the topic of mother of the bride outfits. Here's what I found:
Mother of the Bride Outfit Options
In the past, mother of the bride or groom outfits were often considered matronly or conservative. However, nowadays, mothers are encouraged to wear outfits that they love and feel amazing in. There are various options to choose from, including knee-length dresses, floor-length dresses, trouser suits, and jumpsuits. From sleek evening gowns to trendy midi to maxi dresses and structured jumpsuits, there are plenty of great options available for the mother of the bride look [[1]].
Factors Affecting a Mother of the Bride Outfit
When choosing a mother of the bride outfit, there are several factors to consider. These include:
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The couple's opinion: It's important to involve the couple in the decision-making process. While the couple's opinion should be taken into account, the mother of the bride should also choose an outfit that she loves and feels confident in. It's a collaborative effort to ensure the outfit is appropriate for the wedding day [[2]].
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The color theme and wedding party: The mother of the bride's outfit can complement the wedding party's colors, but it doesn't necessarily have to match. It's best to wait until the bride chooses the bridesmaids' dresses before starting to shop. Pastel colors such as pale blue or mint are always flattering and elegant options. It's generally advised to avoid wearing the same color as the bride's dress [[3]].
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The venue: The wedding venue can also influence the choice of outfit. A formal setting calls for a more upscale outfit, while a casual look is appropriate for laid-back celebrations. Consider the style and formality of the venue when selecting your outfit [[4]].
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Seasonality: The season and weather should also be taken into account when choosing a mother of the bride outfit. For example, lightweight fabrics and shorter sleeves may be more suitable for summer weddings, while longer sleeves and heavier materials may be preferred for winter weddings. Consider the length, weight, sleeve style, and color of the outfit in relation to the season [[5]].
Accessorizing a Mother of the Bride Outfit
Traditionally, mother of the bride outfits are associated with stunning hats, especially in religious venues. However, the choice of accessories depends on the type of wedding. For formal celebrations, hats are often expected, while more relaxed weddings may call for headbands or small fascinators. Other accessories to consider include heels, a smart coat, a sleek clutch bag, and light boleros or pashminas for summer weddings. Choose accessories that complement your outfit and consider which parts of you will be on show [[6]].
Coordinating with the Mother of the Groom
Traditionally, the mother of the bride would buy her dress first and then share her choice with the mother of the groom. However, there is no longer a strict rule about this. The mothers may still wish to coordinate to avoid accidentally showing up in the same outfit. While the dresses don't have to match, they should complement each other. It's advisable for the mothers to discuss outfit ideas together to ensure a cohesive look [[7]].
Hair and Makeup for the Mother of the Bride
There aren't any special rules for the mother of the bride's hair and makeup. It's best to aim for an elegant, understated, and timeless look that reflects your personal style. Consider getting a fresh manicure and pedicure before the wedding and have your hair and makeup done on the day. Whether you choose to get ready with the bridal party or separately is up to you and your child. Remember to bring tissues, wear waterproof mascara, and have some makeup for touch-ups throughout the day [[8]].
When to Purchase a Mother of the Bride Outfit
It's recommended to start searching for a mother of the bride outfit no later than three months before the wedding. This allows time for special orders and alterations. Department stores, specialty stores, and traditional boutiques are all potential places to find the perfect outfit. Some boutiques even offer bespoke tailoring services to ensure a perfect fit [[9]].
Where to Find Mother of the Bride Outfits
There are several reputable outfitters that specialize in mother of the bride or groom outfits. Here are a few options:
- Charisma of Fawley: Known for outstanding choice and attention to detail, they offer wedding outfits for both mothers of the bride and groom [[10]].
- Fancy Frocks of cl*theroe: They have a wonderful array of designers and offer a one-to-one shopping experience [[11]].
- Browne & Daughters: They specialize in creating timeless and chic ladies' coats, jackets, suits, skirts, and dresses [[12]].
- Burr Bridal: This boutique in Cambridge offers designer mother of the bride and groom outfits, along with hats, shoes, and bags [[13]].
- Julie Fitzmaurice: Located in Harrogate, they offer made-to-measure, bespoke, and ready-to-wear mother of the bride outfits [[14]].
- Moira's Reflections: They have a fabulous selection of mother of the bride dresses and outfits, along with complementing hats, shoes, and bags [[15]].
- Cream: Based in Hertfordshire, they offer a full service for the mother of the bride and groom, including a selection of wedding outfits, hats, fascinators, and more [[16]].
- The Clothes Shop: Specializing in mother of the bride and groom outfits, they have over 900 hats and fascinators in stock [[17]].
Additionally, there are brand partners like Oasis, Dorothy Perkins, Karen Millen, and Coast that offer contemporary and stylish choices for mother of the bride outfits [[18]].
I hope this information helps you in choosing the perfect mother of the bride outfit for your child's special day!
