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Where to buy wedding guest & mother-of-the-bride dresses in Canada Tie-Detail Pleated Dress Embroidered Chiffon Fit & Flare Mini Dress Soraya Floral Maxi Dress Le Château Off-The-Shoulder Puff Sleeve Fitted Midi Dress Flared-Sleeve Satin Dress The Somerset Maxi Dress Love In Your Eyes Black Knotted Mermaid Maxi Dress Floral Chiffon Ruffle Dress Grand Beauty One-Shoulder Mermaid Maxi Dress BHLDN Leila Deep-V Flutter-Sleeve Satin A-Line Gown Free People Shadow Dance Midi Dress Dress and Flare Sleeve Bolero Set Significant Other Demi Backless Long-Sleeve Column Gown Off-White Flora Tapestry Maxi Dress Jumpsuit and 3D Flower Jacket Set Oleg Cassini Botanical Illusion Tea-Length A-Line Party Dress Black Coconut Grove Puff Sleeve Maxi Dress Sachin & Babi Cella One-Shoulder Belted Gown Norma Kamali Sleeveless Deep V-Neck Shirred Fishtail Gown Mock Neck Silk Midi Dress Rosette Detail Off-the-Shoulder Dress Oleg Cassini Appliqued Power Satin V-Neck Bodice Mermaid Dress Drape Detail V-Neck Dress Guipure Long Sleeve Maxi Dress $ $$ $$$ Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $100 Tie-Detail Pleated Dress Embroidered Chiffon Fit & Flare Mini Dress Dynamite Soraya Floral Maxi Dress Soraya Floral Maxi Dress Le Château Off-The-Shoulder Puff Sleeve Fitted Midi Dress Le Château Off-The-Shoulder Puff Sleeve Fitted Midi Dress Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $200 Mango Flared-Sleeve Satin Dress Flared-Sleeve Satin Dress The Somerset Maxi Dress The Somerset Maxi Dress Love In Your Eyes Black Knotted Mermaid Maxi Dress Love In Your Eyes Black Knotted Mermaid Maxi Dress Laura Floral Chiffon Ruffle Dress Floral Chiffon Ruffle Dress Lulus Grand Beauty Maxi Dress Grand Beauty One-Shoulder Mermaid Maxi Dress Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $300 BHLDN Leila Deep-V Flutter-Sleeve Satin A-Line Gown BHLDN Leila Deep-V Flutter-Sleeve Satin A-Line Gown Free People Shadow Dance Midi Dress Free People Shadow Dance Midi Dress Laura Dress and Flare Sleeve Bolero Set Dress and Flare Sleeve Bolero Set Significant Other Demi Backless Long-Sleeve Column Gown Significant Other Demi Backless Long-Sleeve Column Gown Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $1,000 Farm Rio Off-White Flora Tapestry Maxi Dress Off-White Flora Tapestry Maxi Dress Melanie Lyne Jumpsuit and 3D Flower Jacket Set Jumpsuit and 3D Flower Jacket Set Oleg Cassini Botanical Illusion Tea-Length A-Line Party Dress Oleg Cassini Botanical Illusion Tea-Length A-Line Party Dress Farm Rio Black Coconut Grove Puff Sleeve Maxi Dress Black Coconut Grove Puff Sleeve Maxi Dress Sachin & Babi Cella One-Shoulder Belted Gown Norma Kamali Sleeveless Deep V-Neck Shirred Fishtail Gown Norma Kamali Sleeveless Deep V-Neck Shirred Fishtail Gown LilySilk Mock Neck Silk Midi Dress Mock Neck Silk Midi Dress Melanie Lyne Rosette Detail Off-the-Shoulder Dress Rosette Detail Off-the-Shoulder Dress Oleg Cassini Appliqued Power Satin V-Neck Bodice Mermaid Dress Oleg Cassini Appliqued Power Satin V-Neck Bodice Mermaid Dress Laura Drape Detail V-Neck Dress Drape Detail V-Neck Dress Dark Green Guipure Long Sleeve Maxi Dress Guipure Long Sleeve Maxi Dress FAQs

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While it feels like only yesterday that your child was walking around in diapers, time has played a trick on you, and suddenly, they're due to walk down the aisle — and you're the mother of the bride (or groom!). Unsurprisingly, the wedding of your son or daughter can bring up a lot of emotions. And while the day should revolve around the happy couple, guests will inevitably be turning to you as one of the day's standout figures. So, with (at least some of) the spotlight headed your way, you'll want to look and feel your best as you send your child off into their new stage of life. Luckily, the world is your oyster when it comes to wedding attire. From brewery to black tie, this season's roster of mother-of-the-bride and groom dresses is something to behold. With prices starting at less than $100, scroll down to shop the 24 best mother-of-the-bride and mother-of-the-groom dresses for spring and summer weddings in 2024.

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    Tie-Detail Pleated Dress

  • The 24 best mother-of-the-bride dresses in 2024 that aren't frumpy | Spring & summer weddings (3)

    Embroidered Chiffon Fit & Flare Mini Dress

    $70 at Le Château

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    Soraya Floral Maxi Dress

    $80 at Dynamite

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    Le Château Off-The-Shoulder Puff Sleeve Fitted Midi Dress

    $70 at Suzy Shier

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    Flared-Sleeve Satin Dress

    $160 at Mango

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    The Somerset Maxi Dress

    $168 at Anthropologie

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    Love In Your Eyes Black Knotted Mermaid Maxi Dress

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    Floral Chiffon Ruffle Dress

    $178 at Laura

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    Grand Beauty One-Shoulder Mermaid Maxi Dress

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    BHLDN Leila Deep-V Flutter-Sleeve Satin A-Line Gown

    $248 at Anthropologie

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    Free People Shadow Dance Midi Dress

    $269 at Shopbop

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    Dress and Flare Sleeve Bolero Set

    $228 at Laura

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    Significant Other Demi Backless Long-Sleeve Column Gown

    $286 at Anthropologie

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    Off-White Flora Tapestry Maxi Dress

    $505 at Farm Rio

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    Jumpsuit and 3D Flower Jacket Set

    $398 at Melanie Lyne

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    Oleg Cassini Botanical Illusion Tea-Length A-Line Party Dress

    $320 at David's Bridal

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    Black Coconut Grove Puff Sleeve Maxi Dress

    $460 at Farm Rio

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    Sachin & Babi Cella One-Shoulder Belted Gown

    $695 at Anthropologie

  • Norma Kamali Sleeveless Deep V-Neck Shirred Fishtail Gown

    $325 at Anthropologie

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    Mock Neck Silk Midi Dress

    $349 at LilySilk

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    Rosette Detail Off-the-Shoulder Dress

    $448 at Melanie Lyne

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    Oleg Cassini Appliqued Power Satin V-Neck Bodice Mermaid Dress

    $367 at David's Bridal

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    Drape Detail V-Neck Dress

    $348 at Laura

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    Guipure Long Sleeve Maxi Dress

    $580 at Farm Rio

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Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $100

Fuss-free and flattering, shop this pleated dress in three colours.

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    Tie-Detail Pleated Dress

This pretty fit and flare knee-length dress has a chiffon skirt and an embroidered mesh top.

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    Embroidered Chiffon Fit & Flare Mini Dress

    $70 at Le Château

Dynamite Soraya Floral Maxi Dress

This elegant (and affordable!) floral maxi dress is versatile enough to wear to the office or a party.

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    Soraya Floral Maxi Dress

    $80 at Dynamite

Le Château Off-The-Shoulder Puff Sleeve Fitted Midi Dress

Red-hot mama! Shop this off-the-shoulder puff-sleeve dress in two colours.

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    Le Château Off-The-Shoulder Puff Sleeve Fitted Midi Dress

    $70 at Suzy Shier

Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $200

Mango Flared-Sleeve Satin Dress

This flared-sleeve satin dress comes in a gorgeous shade of pink, purple and green.

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    Flared-Sleeve Satin Dress

    $160 at Mango

The Somerset Maxi Dress

You can never go wrong with Anthropologie's best-selling, best-reviewed dress. Shop the Somerset in eight colourways.

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    The Somerset Maxi Dress

    $168 at Anthropologie

Love In Your Eyes Black Knotted Mermaid Maxi Dress

Vow to wow in this show-stopping mermaid gown. Shop the figure-skimming dress in three colours.

Laura Floral Chiffon Ruffle Dress

This figure-flattering ruffle dress is a stylish pick for casual weddings.

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    Floral Chiffon Ruffle Dress

    $178 at Laura

Lulus Grand Beauty Maxi Dress

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This stretchy, medium-weight crepe gown is beloved by Lulus reviewers who call the dress "absolutely stunning" and promise it's "comfortable" and "flattering."

Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $300

BHLDN Leila Deep-V Flutter-Sleeve Satin A-Line Gown

Give the day the pizazz it deserves in this stunning A-line gown. The eye-catching flutter sleeve style is available in 10 colours and standard and plus sizes.

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    BHLDN Leila Deep-V Flutter-Sleeve Satin A-Line Gown

    $248 at Anthropologie

Free People Shadow Dance Midi Dress

How good is this? Free People reviewers say this lace midi dress is "totally flattering."

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    Free People Shadow Dance Midi Dress

    $269 at Shopbop

Laura Dress and Flare Sleeve Bolero Set

Don't walk to get this dress — run! This figure-flatting two-piece set comes in plus and petite sizes.

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    Dress and Flare Sleeve Bolero Set

    $228 at Laura

Significant Other Demi Backless Long-Sleeve Column Gown

You're going to want to keep this long-sleeve column gown in rotation far beyond wedding season. The backless beauty comes in six colours, including classic black.

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    Significant Other Demi Backless Long-Sleeve Column Gown

    $286 at Anthropologie

Best mother of the bride & groom dresses under $1,000

Farm Rio Off-White Flora Tapestry Maxi Dress

This oh-so-chic tropical maxi is crafted from eco-responsible fibres.

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    Off-White Flora Tapestry Maxi Dress

    $505 at Farm Rio

Melanie Lyne Jumpsuit and 3D Flower Jacket Set

Combine the comfort of a jumpsuit with the elegance of evening wear in this unique two-piece set.

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    Jumpsuit and 3D Flower Jacket Set

    $398 at Melanie Lyne

Oleg Cassini Botanical Illusion Tea-Length A-Line Party Dress

Dazzle your (child's) wedding guests in this elegant tea-length dress from Oleg Cassini.

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    Oleg Cassini Botanical Illusion Tea-Length A-Line Party Dress

    $320 at David's Bridal

Farm Rio Black Coconut Grove Puff Sleeve Maxi Dress

This one-of-a-kind maxi would be perfect for destination weddings.

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    Black Coconut Grove Puff Sleeve Maxi Dress

    $460 at Farm Rio

Be the talk of the town in this one-shoulder belted gown.

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    Sachin & Babi Cella One-Shoulder Belted Gown

    $695 at Anthropologie

Norma Kamali Sleeveless Deep V-Neck Shirred Fishtail Gown

This V-neck ultramarine gown is the definition of elegance. Simple yet stunning, you'll love its ruching and fishtail silhouette.

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    Norma Kamali Sleeveless Deep V-Neck Shirred Fishtail Gown

    $325 at Anthropologie

LilySilk Mock Neck Silk Midi Dress

For wedding guests, bridesmaids and mothers of the bride, LilySilk's Mock Neck Silk Midi is a dress you'll actually want to wear again.

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    Mock Neck Silk Midi Dress

    $349 at LilySilk

Melanie Lyne Rosette Detail Off-the-Shoulder Dress

Make a splash this wedding season in this elegant Melanie Lyne off-the-shoulder gown.

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    Rosette Detail Off-the-Shoulder Dress

    $448 at Melanie Lyne

Oleg Cassini Appliqued Power Satin V-Neck Bodice Mermaid Dress

Oleg Cassini's elegant V-neck mermaid dress is worth a celebration unto itself.

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    Oleg Cassini Appliqued Power Satin V-Neck Bodice Mermaid Dress

    $367 at David's Bridal

Laura Drape Detail V-Neck Dress

This glamorous floor-length dress has a flattering fit and romantic flutter sleeves.

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    Drape Detail V-Neck Dress

    $348 at Laura

Dark Green Guipure Long Sleeve Maxi Dress

After wedding season has wrapped up, this gorgeous maxi will remain a staple in your vacation wardrobe.

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    Guipure Long Sleeve Maxi Dress

    $580 at Farm Rio

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What are the mothers of the bride wearing in 2024? ›

A mother of the bride or groom can never go wrong with a floral dress, and, this year, the bolder the florals the better. “For 2024, I anticipate a trend towards bold and large floral prints for mothers,” says bridal stylist Erika Plackowski.

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What is trending for mother of the bride dresses? ›

Beaded dresses are some of the most popular mother-of-the-bride styles, and it's easy to see why—sparkly sequins and beading just scream "celebration." This blush pink gown is adorned with beadwork and gorgeous floral details for a breathtaking ensemble for mothers of the bride.

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What does mother of the bride wear in summer? ›

Wear a flowy, lightweight floral dress with statement jewelry for a laid-back informal or semi-formal wedding that takes place at the beach. Tea-length, co*cktail-length, and knee-length dresses are great picks. Long maxi dresses with a loose silhouette can also work.

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What is the best color to wear as a mother of the bride? ›

Try blues, greens, purples, and neutrals such as navy, emerald, plum, or silver. These versatile – and universally flattering – palettes make it easy for mothers of the bride and groom to harmonize. With pale green and blue tints, we love silvery shades for Mum, while jewel tones pair well with other rich colours.

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What color should the mother-of-the-bride wear in summer? ›

Some of the best summer colors for red, pinks and coral themes are Sangria, Fuchsia, coral pink, peach, merlot include khaki And as for fabric, mother of the bride dresses made from tulle, chiffon, satin, and organza are perfect for summer.

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How to look classy as mother-of-the-bride? ›

While dressing in too revealing a style isn't advisable for any guest, you can dress to emphasise your assets - a sleeveless dress to show toned arms, belts to highlight your waist or a shorter length for great legs. Keep styling simple and avoid too much embellishment, which can look fussy in photos.

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Who pays for mother-of-the-bride outfit? ›

Mother of the Bride & Groom

Both the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom are expected to pay for their own wedding attire. Typically, these gowns do not need to match the bridesmaid dresses, however, some brides prefer for the gowns to coordinate in some way.

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Should mother-of-the-bride wear hair up or down? ›

Updos are a mother-of-the-bride hairstyle favorite for a reason: they're timeless, they frame your face and they work with a wide variety of dress styles. Whether it's a beautiful braided bun, an elegant chignon or an updo with a few wispy tendrils, you really can't go wrong.

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How much should the mother-of-the-bride spend on a dress? ›

In the mid-range, a mother-of-the-bride dress costs about $200-$800 for a dress with a moderate level of detail from a higher end department store or bridal store. At Nordstrom[2] , mother-of-the-bride dresses range from about $100-$775.

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What color dress should the mother of the bride not wear? ›

Unless you've received approval from the couple, it's best to steer clear from white, ivory or champagne hues as not to take attention away from the bride.

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Do mother of bride and groom wear the same color? ›

Should the mother of the bride and mother of the groom wear different colors? Generally yes, according to Valiente. "Open communication is key to nailing the color selection," she says.

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What jewelry should the mother of the bride wear? ›

Don't be tempted to try out a new style

Instead, opting for subtler pieces you can incorporate into your everyday looks will be great. This could include picking simple, dainty pieces that include little gemstone details, as opposed to chunky, oversized jewellery.

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Who walks in with the mother of the bride? ›

If the mother of the bride is taking part in the wedding processional, she is traditionally escorted by a close male relative like a son or brother or may enter alone. If the parents are divorced, she may be escorted by her partner. In some cases, a groomsman or best man will escort her down the aisle.

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What should the mother of the bride not do? ›

Mother of The Bride: How to Avoid Upstaging or Upsetting the...
  • Consult with The Bride. ...
  • Avoid Being Too Casual. ...
  • Don't Make the Wedding About You. ...
  • Don't Be Pushy. ...
  • Don't Tell Her Who Should Be Her Bridesmaids. ...
  • Don't Compare Her Wedding to Others. ...
  • Don't Be Too Critical. ...
  • Don't Make Empty Offers.

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When should the mother of the bride get her outfit? ›

The important thing is to keep her involved, so you're both happy with the final look. Ideally, it's best to start looking for a mother of the bride outfit six to eight months before the wedding date.

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What length dress should the mother of the bride wear? ›

Knee-length dresses are perfect for more casual weddings, while midi-length dresses are a great choice for more formal events. For evening weddings, floor length mother of the bride gowns are the most traditional and formal option.

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What should the mother of the bride wear in her hair? ›

Half up half down with bouffant

It is perfect for mothers of the bride with longer hair as having the bottom of your hair down offsets the dramatic top. Meaning that this look is both voluminous and striking while having a flattering and natural edge.

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Does the mother of the bride give a gift to her daughter? ›

What should she gift her daughter? The mother of the bride has a wide range of options, depending on what she thinks her daughter will appreciate the most. It could be a customized hanger for her wedding dress or jewelry to wear to the ceremony, for example.

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