U Up?
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, in which they discuss their takes on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters to defining the relationship and everything in between, they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram.
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It’s the same U Up? podcast you know and love, with a ton of added perks. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new episodes, plus bonus subscriber-only episodes.
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What does my U Up? With Benefits subscription include?-+
All newly released episodes of the podcast are available ad-free and will arrive in your podcast feed the day before they are released to non-subscribers. Plus, you’ll get two exclusive bonus episodes each month.
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Are you taking anything away from the old U Up? podcast feed?-+
Nope! All the same old U Up? episodes are available for non-subscribers.
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How do I subscribe on Apple Podcasts?-+
Sign up directly on the Betches site to get access to bonus episodes and future perks! You can also subscribe on Apple by going to the same-old U Up? channel on the Apple Podcast app and clicking the subscribe button. Simple as that!
I listen to my podcasts on Spotify. How do I subscribe?-+
You will need to subscribe directly through the Betches site, but, once you do, you will be able to listen to your premium episodes on Spotify. When you subscribe on the Betches site, you will be taken through a few quick steps allowing you to seamlessly integrate U Up? With Benefits into your Spotify app. We got you!
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What happens after I subscribe on the Betches site?-+
After subscribing, you will be guided through a few quick steps to seamlessly integrate your premium episodes into your preferred podcast platform. Yeah, it’s almost too easy. we know. Then, start listening and enjoy!
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When are the usual U Up? episodes made available for subscribers?-+
Our usual Wednesday and Sunday episodes are available a day early. In some cases, these episodes may arrive mid-day (due to publishing constraints within the Apple and Spotify platforms), but rest assured that you’ll be the first to hear Jared and Jordana as soon as they’re available.
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How often are the exclusive subscriber-only bonus episodes released?-+
The two bonus episodes arrive in your podcast feed on the first and third Monday of each month. This stuff is juicy, so be sure to keep an eye out for it.
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What should I do if the latest early-release episode doesn’t appear in my feed?-+
Episodes are scheduled for release a day early, but in some cases, they may not land in your podcast feed until a full 24 hours ahead of their scheduled release (due to publishing constraints within the Apple and Spotify platforms). We suggest refreshing your podcast feed on early release days, but most should be available by mid-day for early listening.
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What happens if I want to cancel my subscription?-+
We hate to see you go, but we know this doesn’t mean goodbye forever. If you want to cancel your subscription on Apple, simply go to this Apple landing page and follow the instructions on your device. To cancel on the Betches site, navigate to your subscription page here.
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Latest Episodes
Where to Start
I Love My BF, But He Hates My Dog
J&J are taking on complicated relationships and realizations in this week’s episode, but first, they catch up on Jordana’s latest trip, get excited for their voyage en France, and Jared vents about the unknown era he’s navigating. The first email comes from a listener looking to collect $1,000 her ex owes her. He’s gone radio silent and it’s been a year, but J&J think she’s making a mistake with her ask. Then, our final “Friends to Lovers” submission takes a turn when a listener found her lover’s Grindr messages. TRIGGER WARNING for our next email, we talk about animal abuse. J&J receive an email about an impending breakup, a heartbroken woman, and her dog at the center. She thought he was “the one,” but her dog’s reactions as their relationship progressed caused major issues, and Jared thinks her concern and focus are in the wrong place. The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?” about dating your ex’s twin, tattoos of faces, and a questionable bachelor party game.
Love, Limerence, And Cop Outs ft. Olivia O’Brien
J&J are joined by Olivia O’Brien ahead of the release for her upcoming EP, “Love and Limerence,” but before they get started, Jordana and Olivia fill Jared in on what limerence means. Then, Olivia shares the struggles with being vulnerable in her songwriting and dating other public figures, and Jared can relate for why he’s cautious with the real experiences he puts into his work. Plus Olivia shocks J&J with the aftermath of her song with gnash, “i hate u, i love u,” blowing up on the charts in 2016, they talk double standards of women being vulnerable, the difference in LA and NYC social scenes, and why Gen Z might be more open to casual relationships. The episode ends with answering a listener’s email about being on the hook and not knowing whether she should just walk away before she gets hurt. She’s been happily seeing someone for two months, but he’s now up for a job that would take him overseas indefinitely. They have yet to DTR, but she’s certain she doesn’t want to juggle a long-distance situation. Jared, Jordana and Olivia weigh in.For more from our guest, listen to “Love and Limerence” by Olivia O’Brien (@oliviaobrien) on June 21.
They Always Come Back For The Wrong Reasons
The pod is buzzing this week, and we’re starting with Jordana’s NBA experience seeing the Knicks play (and lose) Game 7 against the Pacers reminding her of a relationship falling apart and Jared’s fired-up morning after a workout. After catching up, they jump into an email from a listener reeling over getting stood up. She had an online relationship with a man in another state for 8 years, but when the stars aligned and she found herself in his area, he blocked her. Is she wrong for wishing he would’ve communicated he didn’t want to meet anymore, or does he not owe her anything because they’d never physically met? Next, we get another “Friends To Lovers” submission from a Canadian man about a woman he met in a workout class. Afterward, a military man asks how to navigate dating when his career’s constant moves have been the subject of several breakups. The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker” about white lies, jorts on a plane, and a special update from a fan-favorite milk debate from our 2020 episodes.
The Hosts
Jordana Abraham
Jordana Abraham is the co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer of Betches who enjoys dispensing advice on all things relationships. In her free time, she can be found roasting Christmas trees and watching very bad reality TV. She also co-hosts U Up?, @Betches, and Oversharing.
Jared Freid
Jared Freid is a New York City-based comedian who sounds like he’s screaming but he’s just really excited to dive into your dating issues!
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Reviews
Great Chemistry and Advice
“I’ve been listening to J&J for a while and I love not only their relationship advice, but also their humor and chemistry with each other. I often find myself laughing out loud with them and enjoy their banter together and with guests.”
Laugh till you cramp!
“J and J—thank you for the words of wisdom. Please keep the advice coming! Your dynamic together is amazing!”
Amazing Podcast
“If you are dating in your 20s and 30s, you have to listen to this podcast. I’ve learned so much about the male species from Jared! It is super helpful!!”
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