Eleven Tips On How To Make Your Crush Fall In Love With You. (2024)

Tough Feelings, Fun, too serious, too friendly but difficult to express, those are the factors that determine "crush".

Having a crush is fun. the butterflies, the sneaky glances when they walk by and the daydreams that follow.

But it’s not so fun when you’re head over heels in love with them and they have absolutely no idea.
We’ve all been there, I certainly have, when just the thought of telling them how you feel makes your heart pound and hands clam up.

Below are some tips on how to make your crush fall in love for you.

This is one of the most important part of it, But with that being said, it takes a certain level of confidence to start making eyes at your crush.

Whether you already know them or it’s someone you’ve been crushing on from afar, you’re going to need the confidence to make this work. And here’s the thing, Even if you’re not the most confident person in the world, that’s okay.

Half of us are faking it anyway and no one is the wiser. So when you know you’re about to bump into your crush, put on some motivational music, make sure you look your best, and smile as if your heart isn’t about to jump out of your ches, Just don’t come across as arrogant though.

You want your crush to notice you and find your confidence sexy, but there’s a fine line which people sometimes overstep because they try too hard, Be confident towards what u want.

The best relationships are based on friendship (and since that’s your end goal if you’re in love) you might be considering being their friend first before making a move, Don’t do it. Once you’re in that friend zone, it’s hard to claw your way back out and make your crush see you as anything but an adorable pal who they call up from time to time.

That’s not your goal, so whilst you can be friendly with them, you want to avoid becoming too pally. But getting your crush to love you back doesn’t have to be that hard, it can be really enjoyable for both of you, and today we’re going to cover the best ways to do it.

Eye contact is one of those things that will never go out of fashion. so much can be said with just a glance across the room. So it’s no wonder that if you’re trying to get your crush to notice you, or even get the hint that you love them, using the magical power of your eyes might just do the trick.

And, honestly, you don’t have to batter your eyelashes at them or stare until they get freaked out just a lingering look will be enough to send their heart falling.

I know what it’s like, they’re talking and all you can think about is what your kids would look like if you hooked up. Or even worse, they’re sharing something personal with you and all you can do is imagine what they’d look like naked, it happens to the best of us.

But your crush is likely to pick up on the fact that you’re distracted, and this won’t bode well for you.
Naturally, people are drawn to those who show a genuine interest in them, so get into the habit of taking mental notes when they speak, even if it’s not particularly important information.

And, it helps to follow up on things they’ve told you in the past.
Ask how their exam went. Find out how the dog is doing. Don’t be afraid to show them that you hang on to their every word they’ll love you for it.

It can be tempting to put on a front and act in a way that you usually wouldn’t. Maybe you try and act cool instead of being your usual goofy, jokey self (which your crush would probably love to see, by the way).

I even got the guy I had a crush on, but months into the relationship I found it hard to disconnect between who I really am and who I was pretending to be. It wasn’t an easy truth to confront.

So, take it from me, just be yourself.
And let’s face it, no one likes being catfished, even if you’re only doing it with your personality, they’ll come to realize it at some point because we can’t hide our true nature forever. So, be honest with them you’ll feel good for it and they’ll get a chance to fall in love with the real you, and celebrate you just as you are.

Don’t act rich if u ain’t rich, don’t act funny if are not, don’t put on vibes if you are not actually one, "Just be yourself", they will surely love you for that. Don’t be afraid to show the real you.

Well, being playful and flirty is your get out of jail card. the more you flirt, the less you’ll be seen as just their pal.

So how can you flirt with your crush to make them love you back?

Here are a few tips:

• Tease them and make them laugh.
• Use physical touch such as putting your hand on their arm or playing with their hair.
• Use your body language, like leaning in when you speak to them.
• Compliment them often.

Flirting is a great way to let your crush know you’re into them, and when done right you can easily get their attention back just be natural about it and don’t force it.
However, hands down the best way to flirt with a guy these days is through text messages.
What’s your flirting game like via text?.

If you want your crush to like you, then you need to grab his attention when you text him.

This is probably one of the most important things you can do to get your crush to love you back.

Why?

Because their passion is their happy place.

It’s the thing that gives their life meaning, so if you take an interest in it, they’ll instantly open up to you. And you’ll start to look more attractive to your crush just by being interested, let alone if you share your passions in return.

So whether you’re a complete movie buff or you can’t get enough of surfing, don’t hold this type of stuff back from your crush. You might even want to consider inviting them along to see whether they enjoy it too, and hopefully, they’ll return the invitation.

And just like that you’ve just got yourself a date with your crush where you can properly get to know each other.

If you already have some form of a friendship/acquaintance established with your crush, it’s a good idea to offer a supportive shoulder for them to lean on. If you know they’re going through a hard time or they’ve had a rough day at work and need to vent, be there for them and show them how much you are willing to do to make them feel better.

The next time they’re feeling a bit blue, you’ll be the first one to pop into their mind and they’ll start associating you with someone who makes them feel good. It’s the ultimate way to win over their heart and gain their trust.
Always been there for them.

They say that opposites attract, and that can be true. But even in those cases, most people tend to look for similarities. It makes us feel comforted, and we see the other person as “safe” because they like some of the same things that we do.

It helps us relate to each other.
We learn that a person has something in common with us, and that makes us feel positively about that person, because we feel positively about ourselves. So as quickly as you can, work out the things you share in common and it’ll instantly make your crush relax and open up to you.

I know how tempting this can be you feel like sharing your past because it’ll give them an insight into the type of relationship you want (or want to avoid). It’s also a chance to show off what a great boyfriend/girlfriend you can be or even a way to get sympathy from your crush, especially if you went through a tough break up.

But as much as it might make for an interesting, emotional conversation, keep it to yourself for now. It’s one thing to dive into this type of conversation once you’re together in a relationship, but it’s not ideal when you’re trying to get your crush to love you back.

And finally, the easiest and most straightforward way to get your crush to love you back is by being honest with them. But before you start panicking at the thought of being upfront with them, don’t worry, it’s not as bad as you think it will be.

And I say that from experience.
I’ve done my fair share of confessing feelings to crushes, and yes I was sweating profusely, and yes I probably turned an uncomfortable shade of ruby red, but once I got it all out it was so worth it.
Always be honest with them.

NOTE:

KEEP YOUR LOVE AND FEELINGS SAFE.